In the same line of thinking the apostle Paul wrote:
Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross (Philippians 2:5-8; ESV).
Jesus could have clung to His rights as God and remained in heaven, instead He laid aside those rights and obediently served humankind out of the love He has for the Father and the love He has for His creation. It is this attitude of humility that Paul insists that we should imitate.
How do we imitate this attitude of humility? I think it begins by recognizing that we have certain rights. I have the right to pursue a self-centered life, that doesn’t mean that is the correct option, but God has given me that choice. The nature of freedom is that there is more than one option open to us. While I have the right to pursue a self-centered lifestyle I also have the right to put others ahead of myself. For example, in the evening I have the right to sit on the couch and “unwind” while watching television. Couch sitting and television watching is an option open to me if I want to do it. Yet, another option is to take my dog Barkley for a walk since he has been in his kennel all day long. I much rather “unwind,” but Barkley need to be walked, and I am free to choose to go for walk and not live a life that is totally about me.
If we are going to be like Jesus requires that we don’t focus simply on what we are free to do, but that we seek to discover what is right. Adam and Eve were free to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, but that wasn’t the right choice. God told the couple not to eat from the tree, the right choice was to use the other fruit trees as food.
Ananias and Sapphira were free to use their land, and the money, anyway they wanted to, but giving only part of the money and lying about it wasn’t the right choice. Freedom is a dangerous responsibility because people have the ability to choose the wrong thing. If we are going to be like Christ Jesus we need to discover the right choice and then commit our lives to doing it.
The apostle Paul said that Jesus chose to obey the Father. How do we know what the right option is? The right choice is what lines up with God’s will. If we just base this choice off of feelings we will often choose wrong because more often than not our feelings are contrary to God’s will, and therefore we will end up living a life of disobedience rather than a life of obedience.
We make the best use of our freedom, not through indulging every little desire that we have, but by choosing to serve people. When we demand that people acknowledge our rights rights we push people away from us, but when we choose to love we open up an opportunity for people to see God. Christ chose to serve His followers first and we must make the same choice.